Showing posts with label sex. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sex. Show all posts

Wednesday, 6 November 2024

Biking About (No.4)

    


    Back in November 2023, I put away my bike and the odometer displayed the number 6009. Although the weather is nice now, I probably will not be riding it again this year. We leave for Vancouver today for two weeks and it is likely I will be shovelling rather than biking when I return. 
   I took this picture yesterday and it looks like I pedalled just over 1400K during our brief summer period. It appears that I did about the same distance last year. I probably could have gone farther if I had one of those fancy Spandex biking outfits. 
   The main purpose of this post is that it provides me with a record of my summer cycling accomplishments and it gives you something to read which doesn't involve the American election.
   For more fascinating details see: "Biking About (No.3) and this one. To see if biking affects your sex life read, "Biking About." It had no affect on mine. 

Monday, 23 May 2022

Biking About

 

   It is still the Victoria Day weekend and still cold, but I may go out for a bike ride. But, I may not. That is because, while sitting around inside doing nothing, I noticed the book jacket pictured above. I think you will admit, it is a rather good one, illustrating well the subjects covered. 

   How I happened upon this good cover, I don't recall. Honest! I do now have an e-bike and ride more than I used to, but I can't say I have noticed any issue with the seat. If there is any issue with the other issue, I would not know, given my advanced age. 

    I also do not know Mr. Bekman and this is not a plug for his book. I did see that it is available for a modest price and if you are having any seating problems it is readily available. Given the intellectual level of this blog, and that I offer only bespoke suggestions and references, here is one from an Ivy league source which I also just happened to happen upon. The title is: "Biking and Sex - Avoid the Vicious Cycle" and it is from the Harvard Medical School. You can read the entire report, but here are the "simple solutions" offered:

Don’t use a racing seat with a long narrow nose. Pick a wide seat, ideally with plenty of padding. Special gel-filled and shock-absorbing seats are even available.

Don’t tilt your seat upward, a position that increases pressure on the perineum.

Be sure your seat is at the correct height, so your legs aren’t completely extended at the bottom of your pedal stroke.

For extra protection, consider wearing padded biking pants.

Raise the handlebars so you are sitting more upright.

Shift your position and take breaks during long rides.

   Now that it is a bit warmer and I have offered a bit of useful advice, as well as mentioned the word "SEX", which will assist me in attracting more readers, I will go for a ride. 

Sunday, 9 February 2020

Erotica: A Beginner's Guide

     Let me be clear, this post is for readers and lovers of books, not for you prurient practitioners of exotic sexual practices searching for additional advice. Nor is it another cheap trick to attract readers, which admittedly my first post about “Sex was. That didn’t work, but there is some consolation in knowing that I do not have to worry about inadvertently offending a member of some movement by broaching a subject such as this one.

I came to this subject honestly by stumbling upon a review of a new book, which is a supplement to a thick older one, about THE PRIVATE CASE. The contents of these books are about the contents contained in The Private Case, which actually consists of more than one case or cabinet. Located in the Reading Room of the British Museum Library, The Private Case held, what was believed to be, a huge collection of erotica and other books and pamphlets which needed to be locked and hidden behind cabinet doors. I wrote, ‘believed to be’, because such material also was not suitable to be listed in the Library’s General Catalogue. If you were a scholar researching a variety of touchy historical subjects, or simply someone who wanted to see some dirty pictures or books, you had to submit a written request. If the material was found, it had to be read under supervision at what was referred to as “the desk of shame” or “wanker’s desk.”

By the 1960s, hiding such a collection in the Library was rather ludicrous, given that one could read (or simply look at) all kinds of naughty material outside of it. There were demands made to make the collection more accessible and to catalogue it so researchers knew what the Library held. One of the people making such demands was Peter Fryer and his book is where you should start your search. The title and the table of contents are here:
Private Case-Public Scandal, Peter Fryer
“A Short History of the Private Case”
“Sexology, Dictionaries and Books about Books”
“Erotic Classics and Autobiographies”
“Hard Core Pornography”
“Homosexual and Sado-masochistic Literature”
“Secrets of the S.S." [These are books that have been suppressed for a variety of reasons: political, religious, obscenity, illegal, libellous, military secrets, blasphemous; here is one example: The Truth About the Civilisation in Congoland.]

     If you wish to graduate to a much higher level you can read this analysis of what was contained in the collection, which has been made more accessible and was catalogued:
The Private Case: An Annotated Bibliography of the Private Case Erotica Collection in the British (Museum) Library, compiled by Patrick J. Kearney. (1981). If you desire a handy list of salacious items that were suppressed in the past, consult this book (be warned, there are hundreds of entries in languages other than English.)  For most of you, reading the very interesting seventy page introduction by Gershon Legman will be enough.
    It is this book that has now been updated and about which I read a review. The book: The Private Case: A Supplement. Notes towards a Bibliography of the Books that used to be in the Private Case of the British (Museum) Library. Comp. by Patrick J. Kearney and Neil J. Crawford. Berkeley, CA:  Ian Jackson.  2016.  The review concludes: “Kearney’s bibliography provides an invaluable opportunity to consider the ways in which that boundary [ for obscenity] has been constructed, reinforced and undermined in British culture. Both as an aid to literary critics and historiographers and as a bibliographic curio in its own right, it is strongly recommended.” (Lloyd Houston, TLS, Sept. 15, 2017, p.30.)

I am pleased to report that the library in which I used to work (and roam) has a copy of the Fryer book and the first Kearney one, if not the supplement. I recall, also, that when ‘bad’ books were discovered, they were kept and protected. Librarians have been on the right side in this battle. When books are locked away it is usually to protect the books from the readers. When censors ban them it is to protect the readers from the books. There is also now within that library, a Resource Centre (the 'Pride Library'), that contains a considerable collection that would have been off limits not that long ago.

Sources:
    Western Library also has a book which contains this essay: “The Private Case: A History,” by Paul J. Cross in The Library of the British Museum: Retrospective Essays on the Department of Printed Books, ed. By P.R. Harris.
    If you want examples of filthy books in the Western Libraries, here are two. Don’t ask me how I know:  Les onze mille verges or the Amorous Adventures of Prince Mony Vibescu by Apollonaire and Verlaine’s,  Femmes/Hombres: Women/Men. According to a review of the Apollonaire work, “The rutting is non-stop.”   
     The website at the British Library provides a good description of The Private Case
    You can purchase an electronic version of The Private Case and several thousand other erotic items to view in the comfort of your own home. Gale International has digitized them and they are available in the collection: The Archives of Sexuality & Gender. You can read about it at this Gale Blog. The Western Libraries has purchased Pt.1,  LGBTQ History and Culture Since 1940. That Pt.3, Sex and Sexuality, Sixteenth to Twentieth Centuries, has not been acquired is probably because of the large price attached to such  a collection. Content from The Private Case would be found in this part.
     For erotica closer to home, the New York Public Library has a huge collection. For details see: "Lifting the Veil on the New York Public Library's Erotica Collection," Elain Sciolino, NYT, Jan. 1, 2016. As one might expect, France's National Library has a large amount which is referred to as L'Enfer. Ms Sciolino has written about that as well: "A Library Exhibition Not For the Children's Room," NYT, Jan. 16, 2008.
     Lest you think that your hard earned tax dollars or donations are being used to purchase porn, that is not the case. National libraries typically try to collect the documents produced and are expected to receive them, while other collections often receive such material as bequests.

   
Post Script:
       The usual bonus stuff. 
     If you are too lazy to read a whole book and want to go directly to the "Dirty Bits," buy the book with that title which finds them for you.  It was co-authored by Lesley Cunliffe, apparently a stunning flower-child, who married Marcus Cunliffe, the English-born author of The Literature of the United States, who was 23 years her senior and then Professor of American Studies at Sussex University. Erotica is now tolerated, but such a relationship would not be. For the very interesting obituary see: "Leslie Cunliffe" by Mary Killen in the Independent, April 2, 1997.

     Guillaume Apollinaire’s real name is: Wilhelm Albert Włodzimierz Apolinary Kostrowicki. Had I known that at the time I would have included it in my post about Very Long Names

Saturday, 6 August 2016

Sex (the activity)


I suppose one should have something on this subject to attract an audience. Although I don’t know much about it and have only faded memories of it, I was reminded of it recently by a clever cartoon in The New Yorker. The caption below two women in a cafe reads: “Lately, I feel like the only time I have to myself is when I am having sex with Brian.”

That, in turn, reminded me of an example of similar sentiments expressed years ago when, in a short story,  a woman says: “When they’re doing it - you know what I mean- that’s when I do my planning. It gives you time to yourself.” Those of you with prurient interests or those of you who think I make up such stuff should see for the former, The New Yorker (Dec. 22, 2015) and for the latter, Secret Harmonies: The Collected Stories, by V.S. Pritchett.